Anita Philmar, Erotic Romance Author

Bring out the beast

***** Rip it up so he can rip it off.

Alright we all have that old gown, old shirt or a skirt that we just don’t like. Before you give them away to good-will or throw them away. Let me suggest a different alternative. Why not put a rip in a strategic spot and tempt your lover to tear the item off you.

I know it might be a cave man idea, but it can also add spice to your next dull evening.

***** Go commando.

Going pantyless keeps you in touch with the sexy zones of your body. Men were boxer to so they can hang free. Women should do the same to reduce the risk of vaginal infections and remind themselves that they have an appetite for sex too.

A Fantasy -

Bad Boy

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**** None of us really want a bad boy, but it could make for a fun Fantasy.

***** Grab Bag of Fun

Have time for sex, but want something new. On these occasions create a grab bag of fun. You and partner each put ideas in a bag like new positions, sex games, or items to play with.

When you’re at a loss to what to do on your next sexual adventure, pull something from the grab bag and try out something new. Come up with what goes into the bag can be as fun as taking things out of the bag.

***** Skip the flowers

Write a thank you note. Let your lover know you appreciate all the little things they do for you.

This lets them know you notice and builds a stronger relationship.

Something about a Man in a Hat

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***** What article of clothing turns you on?

A suit, a hat, a pair of heels, doesn't matter what it is. Just play an adult game of dress up.

Put it on and let your lover take it off.

As Burt Reynolds said in Smoky and the Bandit, "I only take my hat off for one thing."

Now, how could you pass up an offer like that.

***** Do Everything but….

This can add suspense to your love life.

Agree to not let the evening end with intercourse. You can touch, fondle, tease, stroke, etc, but knowing you can’t have something makes you want it that much more.

Just think what tomorrow can bring. And if you get caught up in the excitement, yeah we won’t hold it against you but your lover might.

Let's Go a Few Rounds

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***** I'm not encouraging a fight where anyone gets hurt. In the contest I'm suggesting, both parties win.

If you've ever watched a wrestling match, it's hard not to imagine how much fun it could be to try out the positions with your lover.

Lay down the rules before you get starts so no one gets hurt, then see how much fun you can have rolling around on the floor with your partner.

***** Edible Treats

There are a number of interesting foods that can be enjoyed while having fun with your partner.

Honey, chocolates, fruit, and all sorts of wines. Pull these out the next time you want to spice up your sex life and see all the interesting places these items can take you and your lover.